A sad story of marriage - What a vulgar man
When I was in ChangCha, A friend of whom I had not seen for a long time called me on QQ. I asked what’s about her. To my big surprise, she said that her husband wanted to divorce her. Her husband was ever my workmate, one of my friends. In fact, I knew more or less about the situation of their marriage. But I never thought that it would go so worse like that.
They were both my workmates. Her husband was ever at the same department with me. He is a computer programmer too. He left our town for ShengZheng to apply for HuaWei. After the couple had been separated for about four years, she decided to quit her job for living with him. She got a job in ChangSha, so that they could live together. Unluckily, he was sent to Vietnam by his company on business. At that time, their daughter was only several months old.
A year passed, she was told that he was attached to a girl in Vietnam who was a waitress. They both sent dirty messages to provoke her now and then, warning her not to want too much if they got divorced.
She just repeated that he was not such a man whenever she met me online, which let me think of the character of “xianglishao”. I feel so sad about her situation. But I can do nothing for her just say something promising.
For a mother, she would have a tough life if she claimed the right of bringing her daughter up. But if she didn’t claim that, it’s very hard for her to decide it. Her baby is only two years of age. I can image what a shock it is for her.
It seems that the rate of divorce is soaring in our country. The reason is complicated. But for a certain couple, the reason is clear. Some people try their best, though they may fail at last, before they get divorced. But some people don’t. For some people, the marriage is just a shelter of loneness, or something for the sex desire like water does for thirst. Perhaps, they have forgotten, for human, there are a lot of responsibilities.